Kuyini isondlo?
La isondlo Kuyiqoqo lezibopho zezomnotho umuntu oyedwa anazo zokwesekwa ngomunye, ngokuvamile ezimweni zomndeni. Lo mqondo uvame ukuhlotshaniswa ngokuyinhloko ne ukondla, kodwa futhi ingabandakanya izindleko ezifana nezemfundo, ezempilo kanye nezindlu.
Izinhlobo zokusekela
I-Alimony
La isondlo Lolu uhlobo oluvame kakhulu lokukhokha futhi lubhekisela ezinkokhelweni ezidingekayo ukuze kukhokhelwe izidingo eziyisisekelo. Lokhu kuhlanganisa:
- Alimentos: Ukudla nesiphuzo.
- imfundo: Izindleko ezihlobene nokuqeqeshwa kwezemfundo.
- Ezempilo: Izindleko zokwelashwa, umshwalense kanye nokwelashwa.
- indawo yokuhlala: Irenti noma imali ebanjiswayo uma ifakiwe esivumelwaneni.
Ukwesekwa komlingani
La ukwesekwa komlingani Lolu hlobo lokwesekwa lusungulwa phakathi kwabashadile, ikakhulukazi ezimeni zedivosi. Lolu hlobo lokwesekwa luhlose ukusiza oyedwa oshade naye agcine izinga lakhe lokuphila ngemva kokuhlukana. Izici ezibaluleke kakhulu zokusekelwa komlingani yilezi:
- Isikhathi: Kungaba okwesikhashana noma unomphela.
- Imibandela yokunquma: Isekelwe ezintweni ezifana nobude bomshado kanye nekhono lezezimali lalabo abashadile.
Amalungelo abathintekayo
Umehluko emithethweni
Kubalulekile ukukuqonda lokho Amalungelo okusekela angahluka kuye ngomthetho wezwe ngalinye noma isifunda. Kodwa-ke, kunamalungelo ajwayelekile asebenza ezimweni eziningi.
Amalungelo ezindlalifa
- Thola isondlo okuvunyelwene ngaso: Ohlomulayo unelungelo lokuthola izinkokhelo ngesikhathi nangendlela ebekiwe.
- Ukubulawa kokwahlulela: Uma izinkokhelo zingenziwanga, unelungelo lokufuna ukungenelela kwezomthetho ukuze uqoqwe.
- Ukuguqulwa kwenani: Ungacela isibuyekezo uma izimo zezimali zomkweleti kanye nomzuzi zishintsha.
Amalungelo omkweleti
- Ukubuyekezwa Kwesivumelwano: Ungacela ukushintshwa kwemigomo uma isimo sakho sezezimali sishintsha.
- Isikweletu esilinganiselwe: Kufanele ukhokhe kuphela lokho okuhambisana neholo lakho kanye nesimo somndeni.
Ungasisungula kanjani isivumelwano sokusekela
Misa isivumelwano se isondlo Kubandakanya ukulandela izinyathelo ezithile zokuqinisekisa ukuthi zombili izinhlangothi ziyavumelana nemigomo. Lezi yizinyathelo ezibalulekile:
Ukuxoxisana phakathi kwamaqembu
Amaqembu kumele abambe iqhaza a ukuxoxisana Evulekile futhi eqotho, efuna isivumelwano esicabangela izidingo zomzuzi kanye namandla omkweleti. Ezinye izincomo zifaka:
- Cacisa ngezidingo.
- Yazi izibopho zomthetho.
- Cabangela ukulamula uma kunesidingo.
Ukwenza isivumelwano sibe semthethweni
Uma isivumelwano sekufinyelelwe kuso, kubalulekile ukuthi sibe semthethweni ngo kubhaliweLo mbhalo kufanele uhlanganise:
- Inani lokusekela.
- Imvamisa yokukhokha (nyanga zonke, kabili ngeviki, njll.).
- Imininingwane ngokuguqulwa kosekelo.
Indlela yokubala isondlo sengane
El ukubala ukwesekwa Akuyona inqubo eyodwa, njengoba incike ezintweni eziningi. Nazi izinto ezivame ukucatshangelwa:
Imali engenayo evela kuzo zombili izinhlangothi
Inani elimisiwe ngokuvamile lisekelwe ku- umholo ophelele kubo bobabili abazali. Kubalulekile ukucabangela ezinye izici ezifana nalezi:
- Amabhonasi namakhomishini.
- Imali engenayo engavamile.
- Imali engenayo evela emisebenzini yesibili.
Izidingo zabahlomuli
Ukwesekwa kufanele kubonise izidingo zomzuzi. Ukucatshangelwa okujwayelekile kufaka:
- Izindleko zokudla nezimpahla zokugqoka.
- Izindleko zemfundo.
- Ukunakekelwa kwezokwelapha.
Ukuguqulwa kokusekela
Izimo zingashintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, okungase kuholele ekutheni abathintekayo bacele izinguquko esivumelwaneni sokuqalaLokhu kungenzeka ngenxa:
Izinguquko esimweni somnotho
Uma umzali oyedwa elahlekelwa umsebenzi wakhe noma ethola ukukhushulelwa iholo okukhulu, lokhu kungase kugunyaze ukubuyekezwa kwamanani okuvunyelwene ngawo.
Ukwehluka kwezidingo zabahlomuli
Izidingo zomzuzi nazo zingase zishintshe. Ngokwesibonelo:
- Ushintsho endaweni yokufunda.
- Isidingo sokwelashwa okwengeziwe.
- Izinguquko esitokisini.
Imiphumela yokungathobeli imithetho
El ukwehluleka ukukhokha ukwesekwa kungaba nemiphumela engathi sína kubo bobabili okweletayo kanye nozuzayo.
Imiphumela kokweletayo
- Izenzo zomthetho: Ohlomulayo angavula icala.
- Ukuhlobisa iholoKwezinye izimo, ukuhlobisa ingxenye yomholo womkweleti kungase ku-odwe.
- Izimali ezikhokhwa emva kwesikhathi: Umkweletu angase abhekane nezindleko ezengeziwe noma izinhlawulo.
Imiphumela yozuzayo
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ozuzayo angase ahlupheke imiphumela ebalulekile ngenxa yokungathobeli imithetho, njengalokhu:
- Izinkinga zomnotho.
- Ukunqatshelwa kwamathuba emfundo.
- Izinkinga zempilo ngenxa yokushoda kwezindleko zokwelashwa.
Izinyathelo okufanele zilandelwe uma kunezinkinga zesondlo
Bhala isimo
Kubalulekile ukubhala zonke izindaba ezihlobene nezinkokhelo zesondlo sezingane. Lokhu kuhlanganisa:
- Gcina amarisidi ezinkokhelo.
- Rekhoda ukuxhumana phakathi kwezinhlangothi zombili.
- Gcina irekhodi lezindleko ezengeziwe ezihlobene nomzuzi.
Funa iseluleko
Uma kunezinkinga, kuyancomeka ukuthi ufune usizo lwe-a ummeli okhethekile emthethweni womndeni, njengoba benganikeza izeluleko zokuthi ungaqhubeka kanjani ngokusemthethweni ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuthi amalungelo omzuzi ayafezeka.
Izisulu zokungathobeli imithetho zingafinyelela izinsiza ezahlukahlukene ukuze zithole ukwesekwa nezeluleko, njengalezi:
Amahhovisi esevisi yamakhasimende
Ezindaweni eziningi, i- amahhovisi osizo lwamakhasimende Ziyindlela enhle kakhulu yokuthola ulwazi ngamalungelo nezibopho maqondana nesondlo sezingane.
Izinhlangano azikho ama-gubernamentales
Kukhona Ama-NGO ezinikeza ukwesekwa emindenini esezimeni ezisengozini, ezinikeza izeluleko zomthetho nezomnotho.
I-inthanethi ingaba yithuluzi eliwusizo, elinamasayithi amaningi ahlinzeka ngolwazi lwezomthetho namafomu adingekayo ukuze kufuneke amalungelo okuxhasa izingane.